i want to ask is it i can use the javamail API to create my own email sending application???

Yes, you can.

i want to ask if i want to get the notification about the mail status such mail sending successful, lost mail or ....... how i can create this kind of notification?

In your code, you'll stumble upon the Transport class. You'll be able to add a listener to your Transport Object through which you'll get notified of failures or the like.

give me the code to create it.

I'd venture to doubt anyone will do that.

I strongly suggest you type the words "javamail tutorial" in your google searchfield and hit that button beneath it, instead of asking such questions out of the blue.